My life is headed in a completely new direction. Not one I planned on or was ready for, but sometimes we have to have faith that everything is happening for a reason. It’s not bad, or horrible…even though I have a tendency to make everything out to be impossible at first. It’s just different and change. I don’t do change. I don’t do different. I am a creature of habit. I have to have everything just so or the world isn’t turning the way I feel comfortable. I am trying very hard to not let the changes effect the holidays.
So… I decided I would participate in the iMOM.com “Crazy Mom” Holiday Challenge. You can follow it at
I always want the holidays just perfect. You know everything in its place, wonderful food, perfect weather, a dress that fits just right (even without dieting all year), no fighting, no arguing, perfect angelic kids, a husband who magically knows where all decorations must go and places them there just right. You know… a dream world and not reality.
I am going to enjoy every moment of these holiday season. How did I start? Well, I am not putting up my Christmas decorations until I have enjoyed a thankful Thanksgiving. Every year I put up the Christmas decorations at the beginning of November so we can enjoy them. But we seem to then just pass over Thanksgiving. Not this year. Nope, No Way! I am enjoying all parts of Thanksgiving.
I am going to document my process on my blog. I think I need it to be accountable for sticking with the challenge. But also to not beat myself up when I have a “moment”. Come on… you know about having a “moment”. I tend to then feel guilty because I fell off the wagon with one of my “moments”. Nope, not this year. I am going to learn how to relax and embrace the chaos.
Number 1 on the challenge… roll with it and don’t expect a perfect holiday. So how is this for not having a perfect holiday. The boys and I will be at home with my mom and family in God’s Country. Hubby will be at our home. He won’t be able to make it over to spend the holiday with the family. Well, just roll with it. We can Skype or FaceTime. The Wild Things and I will have a great time. We can check in with hubby throughout the day. So even though it won’t be perfect, it doesn’t make the day any less special.
I will not have a moment this week when I am driving to God’s Country by myself. I will listen to music, sing really loud (because I’ll have 4 hours in the car by myself), and stop at Starbuck’s whenever I want.It will not be perfect, but I will roll with the changes.